there's a pros and cons with that.. sometimes girls make pakipot a little bit because other peepz out there specially the insecure ones will think that, that girl is a s-l-u-t when she's too straightforward or something... and at least if you're a pakipot a little bit.. you'll have a chance to know the guy better.. like if he's patient enough to wait for you..... whoew! that's a blah answer!