[quote=merx7ii]GIRLS: how come we waste alot of stuff? and i dont mean like "stuff" i mean like, how come when somethng we really want is already right there in front of us, we don't grabe it? (i.e., we think/are confident that the guy we like like's us too, why dont we just go ahead and tell them?)[/quote] Maybe because we, girls, have to much pride in us that we don't want to make the first move, or we are just afraid of rejection. or.. maybe some girls are just too shy to say to that they like that person (lol like me).