[quote]Anyone can sound terrific online.Sure why not?You cant see,hear or feel any emotion. Beside's you can get comfy in your own surroundings.Gee, this is great I can sit here and get emotionally involved with words on a screen.BRILLIANT! Why didnt I do this sooner?I can have my cake and eat it too.Of course that isnt what you are telling yourself.[b]You like feeling admired and appreciated by those words.You cant wait to get home and check your email so you can have that warm fuzzy feeling.[/b] [b]This person understands me,they know the real me.[/b]Thats what you tell yourself.Works for awhile im sure."Why dont we take this to the next level(another much used phrase)and talk on the phone."Sure! sounds great!They only live on the other side of the country or another country altogether.Wow! sounding better isnt it?Makes you want to try it.[i]Then comes the expense of the phone calls.Frequent at first,then daily or many times daily.You suffer at work due to lack of sleep.You avoid friends and family,lets face it you dont have the time.It is a lot of work to wait on those phone calls,another full time job.Your way of living suffers,you start looking sloppy,your surroundings could be falling down around your ears,you dont care.[/i] Here comes the "word".....[b]SOULMATE[/b].....this person is my soulmate. you wouldnt know your soulmate if they jumped up and bit you on the ***.It's a word people.[b]Soulmate is used as an expression[/b],just an expression.It makes you sound true and kind,that you can and will withstand any hardship with this person. [b]If you see yourself in this im truly sorry.Im not picking on any one person or persons.Im voicing what I feel and what I've experienced.It's very sad we can all get caught up in the moment.[/b][/quote]