err~ i agree.. it depends upon the girl... bwahehe! in my situation.. my bf took 4 years courting me before i said yes.. why it took that long..? err~ i didn't really like him.. i mean.. he is not my type.. he said that he will going to wait for me. *duh! i hate this line! guys uses this line always.? right?* however.. i saw his sincerity and acknowledge his effort.. i dont know when it started or how it started but one day.. i woke up missing him and i guess im in love! ^^