[quote=-NiK-]for me (as a girl ) when we are hurt, the pain is not been easily be gone. we tend to love deeply so when we love with all our heart, expect that we cannot move on easily. so just say to her that you can wait until she is ready. if you really love her, you'll wait. love is full of sacrifices so let you sacrifice if u want to win her heart. maybe now she can't love you as you love her but maybe someday she'll realize that she learned to love you. just be nice to her and avoid nagging her. she needs space for now so let she have what she want. if your hurt, it's normal but don't give up. malay mo she can love you someday[/quote] Ok older sis... ^_^ thx for the tips im sure ill handle this... Ill just wait for now.. is that ok?