i fought for the guy i love but it had caused more trouble it went to the point wherein my parents acted as if i don't exist anymore that they don't even talk to me or kiss me goodnight or goodbye that really was what made me decide in the end, i gave up i knew that i was too young and that for now my parents are more important than the person i love i can live without the guy but i cannot without my parents ** i guess the answer here really depends on the case and the responsibility to handle consequences