try to forget your partner but not that totally forget. ur getting rid the spark of love not the person, go socialize and don't mourn in your bedroom cry because the love is over ... blah blah blah u have break up already so move on. try to be happy sense your creativity. optimize your senses bond with friends burn your partner's pictures and stuff in your bedroom erase ... erase ... erase the memories but not all only the ones that is boring but the sweet memories don't forget it. and put in your mind, that u break up with your partner not because ur not perfect or ugly but because God has other plans for both of u. thats life eh. yet im still 16 i have been on a relationship, when i am on the moving process after break up, i spend myself alone first, craving her and reminiscing the past, the money that i've spend to her the stuffs she had given to me. and the music we always play. *secret na haha* then ill play my music player and turn to emo acoustic songs and try to scribble notes on my journal. then go out pathetically and get on the mood while bonding with friends then ill call her if shes already alright and well talk to each other as friends >.<