i actually grew up with my yayas beside me,, when i was young, my parents don't have time for me..they would go to office early (i'm still sleeping) and they would go home late (i'm now sleeping) -that's why i wasn't that close with my dad we don't talk even if we're in the same house, we don't eat together.. we barely do everything together (i think that's because our house that time was too big, you don't even see each other frequently..but they've decided to sell that one and we moved into a new house, hmm relatively smaller ) -when we moved, they have more time for us! we now usually eat together, we had loots of bonding time -we're now closer to one another