`Find out why they hate you. If you know why then see if you can maybe correct the problem. It maybe something as simple as you don't let him study. If you can't fix it then think about it as how much it matters to you. talk to them and make things clear. [u]Would you rather be hatered and be with him or just let it go and move on with someone else?[/u] well it's really up to you sis. It's not like you are married to him. I hate to say it but I talk from experience.