for me the 1st choice.,., gosh.,,.,. its hard to fall in love to ur bestfriend.,,. how can u tell him\her ur feelings.,.,.,??? that u love him\her more than BESTfriends.,., it ruin ur relationship as a good friends.,., and most harder that is she\he has a girlfriend\boyfriend.,,, and bcoz u r his\her bestfriends, she\he will going to tell u how he\she loved her\his girlfriends\boyfriends.,.,,. awwtttssss.,.,.,., it hurts,.,. it hurts u know.,.,.,!!!!!