dont be confused with the newcomer. ask these questions to yourself to help you decide.. what kind of a man do you have? are you happy with him? is he not giving you enaf of what you need making it the reason for the newcomer to caught your attention. would it be fair to the first guy? knowing that you are thinking of sum1 else? and in the first place, would your feeling and the feeling of the newcomer is mutual? think again, coz maybe he feels nothing to you..