to love.. ..it is better to love a person coz for me love is a sacrifice,, it doesnt matter if he loves me in return or not.. as long as i know that my heart is on the person i really love and i cant push myself to others.. ... what is the sense of being loved by others if your heart already belongs to someone else? its hard.. and you cant push your self to love a person unless your willing to learn how to love a person who loves you..