[quote=leviel]actually its what im saying if all of us will do wat we think is right then many members will also do the same,so wats the use of the rules? if we just follow our selves?? thats why admin made the rules for Ftlak to be progressive or lets say so ftalk will last long...im not angry ok its just my opinion[/quote] yeah I think your right, it's what keeps us to be progressive and act as it need to be, to be like more organize . I just mess up my 1st post [quote=jamessss:b]..and btw, i missed my old forumates, where we used to confe every night. [/quote] yeah me too, many people already leave because they're now busy, I think that's one thing too, [spoiler]specially in our group [/spoiler] [quote=jamessss:b]yes. that's the best solution. but it's so easy to say those kind of words. and probably, not all of us can do the that thing: forgive and forget.[/quote] yes, action speak louder than words If everyone in Fstalk could just read what you say and undestand and then we could all [b] forgive and forget[/b] [quote=losher29]People who have been offending each other. Go here http://theftalk.com/t34686-I-want…......html Common It's Christmas, At least we can have some peace in this world. We already have bunch of problem wars,economy,tragedies, and more. God said forgive other no matter HOW BAD the scar they did to you. Now Go forgive each other, I know It's kind of weird to say But It's Christmas day. Just imagine that All of us is in a big big living room, confessing and saying that we are sorry to each other. Okay you guys,Good luck.[/quote] nyc one bro , well I think those people in the link could now understand what they really need to do , because we're suppose to be unite as one because we're Ftalkers:eh: btw Merry Christmas

so wats were w8ing for lets starting forgiving each other, start renewing our beloved forum, start loving each other... the best way is to start w/ our selves.... apologize to the people you hurt... [b]Lets Bring Back The Nice FriendsterTalk We Have!!![/b]

[quote=portuniecho]Anyways. Lets help each other here. If there's a will there's a way. God Bless. Merry Christmas everyone. :gift:[/quote] agree with this too, [b] at topic:[/b] I'm just digging here for some history of Friendstertalk before I was born here, to know how this site grow and started haahah, here cud be one point too..this could be one reason again.... read this: [quote=Lordheinz] I wish this egroup wont cause gap in our friendship..just remember,we are still a family! here in the forum..[/quote] [quote=Angeli_7]Always remember that egroups are not created for COMPETITION, no one is imitating anyone or trying who's best and all that... that is not the main purpose of this feature... each of us has our own talents and interests and that's one reason why i made an egroup.. we have a different purpose, we're a bunch of crazy members who just love to hang out and talk about music.. we never talk anything bad about other members or even make fun of other egroups.. we are different in our own way Yup i agree.. we're still one team... No competition and all that. No fighting on who's best etc. We can be the best in our own ways. [/quote] [quote=Angeli_7]Always remember that egroups are not created for COMPETITION, no one is imitating anyone or trying who's best and all that... that is not the main purpose of this feature... each of us has our own talents and interests and that's one reason why i made an egroup.. we have a different purpose, we're a bunch of crazy members who just love to hang out and talk about music.. we never talk anything bad about other members or even make fun of other egroups.. we are different in our own way Yup i agree.. we're still one team... No competition and all that. No fighting on who's best etc. We can be the best in our own ways. [/quote] see? well before I join any of groups it's not like this, I was like open to all members to friendstertalk, I'm not saying that this the real point..I was just thinking no offense btw

it would be really hard

i guess we can do that by just having FTalk as a chatbox where this x-mas, everyone who logs on will only be at chatbox (or a bigger chatbox like Class-S Chatbox) then members cannot access any parts of FTalk, so that there we could talk and say sorry to those we've hurt!

i think if you just wait nothing will happen.. why not try to lessen our super strict attitude i mean.. we can be strict w/out throwing any offending words.. we dont need to be strict (just to say we are cool. lol) and acting like on the top for short acting like a kid remember wer not here to compete wer here to give and take.. peace! happy christmas all!!

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[b]Just forgive all members here even they don't ask for your sorry.[/b] We couldn't forget nor change things that have happened. But we can do the best for the future. Respect is a must. Never ask people to respect you when you can't respect them. Don't forget that we came from different backgrounds. And what is more, we are here to share and make friends. You can make enemies within seconds, but it will take a long time to make "friends" Gud luck to us.

That's why this thread was made > [url]http://theftalk.com/t34686-I-want-to-close-the-gap-between-me-and.......html[/url] For us to close the gaps between you and your enemy. Like everyone, I missed the old ftalk and old members too. But things are changing, not everything is permanent.

i dunno. i have been to many forums but sad to say.. i really don't like the atmosphere here.. that's on my perception only

You have a point there. but how can we make this a better place?