i think that the guy is using you as his rebound girl because his past love didn't work out so he's looking for someone to help him ease the pain. either that or he really loves you but still can't move on from his past love. and YES i think you fell in love with the guy because of the date you had it's just my opinion

Thank you guys. Sad to say he just played with me. ü

[quote=meyrinx]There is this guy. We've been text mates since our Christmas vacation started. And he was also my school mate. And I know that he has a crush on me. December 27, 2008 the date we first talked to each other in personal and we actually had a great day, we only laughed and talked to each other and I did have a crush on him that day. December 28, 2008 my sisters and I went to laguna to have a vacation. At night while I was eating he said "Panu kung love na talaga nararamdaman ko sayo?". "Impossible naman un, ambilis." I replied. "Bakit hindi naman impossible na mangyari na mafall ako agad. Mabilis ako mafall sa mabait sakin e." I asked him "Gusto lang o mahal?". "Gusto na may halong pagmamahal" he said. Days passed and we kept on texting. January 1 I asked him if he love his past love [mu lang sila before.] if he loves this particular girl. He answered "unti na lang." It does hurt. I then said to him "Sabi ko na nga ba e. Hindi mo naman ako mahal.". "Mahal kita kaso meron pang unti para sa kanya." he said. It's a big OUCH! He ruined my NEW YEAR!!! Does he really love me? but I couldn't even feel that he loves me. What would I do now I did fell in love with him?[/quote] First of all, when it hurts you. In filipino "my konti ka na pagtingin sa kanya pero di pa ganun kadevelop." Second, maybe it is just an infatuation. Third, If love you have felt on him. Try to understand the situation. go to the process of courtship. In filipino "dito mo lang malalaman kung talaga inlove ka na sa kanya"

I think I wasn't in love with him. I did got hurt "just a bit" when somebody said that he never loved me. I hated myself believing in him and saying some silly things to him. It's my fault, I shared everything to him, my secrets, lifestory, and etc. Anyways, thanks a lot for posting here.