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Guys, this is so personal situation. Just want to ask your opinion and advice. I've been single for almost 1 year. Although, some are asking that why I don't have a girlfriend right now. They always
- vanraid
- » FTalkAddict
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1969-12-31
Guys, this is so personal situation. Just want to ask your opinion and advice. I've been single for almost 1 year. Although, some are asking that why I don't have a girlfriend right now. They always
Guys, this is so personal situation. Just want to ask your opinion and advice.
I've been single for almost 1 year. Although, some are asking that why I don't have a girlfriend right now. They always thought that the reason that I'm single is because I'm waiting for my ex-girlfriend to come back. My ex-girlfriend name is Lenny. (Don't mind if I post her name, She's not with Ftalk). But my true reason why I'm single is to pursue my dreams.(Not mentioning, I'm a graduating student). I want to concentrate on my studies.
My ex-girlfriend broke up with me with no reason. Which that hurts. I can't deny that I follow my heart recently, wishing for a comeback, but it didn't work.. I'm open with her family and relatives until now but I keep my space to her.
For months, I 'm moving on. Sometimes I forget about her. Although I'm liking someone else right now, but no courtship. Its been a 6months since I saw her. I told to myself, I will forget her. But recently, I always saw her, we always meet in the same place, we ride in the same vehicle. I hate this feeling that all the time, she is on my mind. I lost my concentration on my training and studies, I can't sleep and I can't eat my food. I thought it is all over for us.. She don't want to see me, and I don't have plan to let her saw me too.
I hate this feeling. 
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- pLurK
- » FTalkFreak
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- 1969-12-31
Re: Guys, this is so personal situation. Just want to ask your opinion and advice. I've been single for almost 1 year. Although, some are asking that why I don't have a girlfriend right now. They always
well dude umm. for the sake of your studies and yourself, why not talk to Lenny. it may sound crazy but if your heart desires it then you should follow it.
i know that what you went through was rough, it's hard moving on after a blow like that, but come on dude what if destiny brought you to together? would you deny the fact that you still love her?
maybe this is a signal that you should talk to her and become her friend. maybe this is the time to ask her all the questions that have been bothering you for the past year.
i know that acceptance is the always the hardest part of every failed relationship and i know that you've been trying your best, but it's hard to stop love when it starts, if you feel that you must seek the answer why she broke up with you ,then ask her, nothings gonna happen if you just sit around and act invisible when she's around.
only an opinion dude 
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- vanraid
- » FTalkAddict
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- 1969-12-31
Re: Guys, this is so personal situation. Just want to ask your opinion and advice. I've been single for almost 1 year. Although, some are asking that why I don't have a girlfriend right now. They always
[quote=pLurK]i know that acceptance is the always the hardest part of every failed relationship and i know that you've been trying your best, but it's hard to stop love when it starts, if you feel that you must seek the answer why she broke up with you ,then ask her, nothings gonna happen if you just sit around and act invisible when she's around.[/quote]
Actually, i know the answer now. anyway thanks for the comment bro...
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- aicah
- » FTalkFreak
- 1962
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- 1969-12-31
Re: Guys, this is so personal situation. Just want to ask your opinion and advice. I've been single for almost 1 year. Although, some are asking that why I don't have a girlfriend right now. They always
:)hmm... bro,, i know what is your situation right now. but for me you really need to move on. i know it's difficult especially forgetting your feelings to the one you really love. but bro, you really need to. like what you've written above you said she broke up with you w/o any reason, and for me its not an excuse..
in my opinion,, eventhough its hard try to do it. just remember this "you need to learn how to forget a person who holds you tight at first but then let you go when he/she is tired without any reason, and the saddest part of it.. he/she just let go and leaves you broken."
hope you wil understand my point. but its just only my advice, your still the only one who knows what to do.. 
hope that it can help. gudluck to your studies.. 
hope that it can help. gudluck to your studies..
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