[quote=jieduck]Iha, I am quite sure that you are still so young. Don't be in a hurry. Be brave, live your life. He's not meant to be with you, be happy with that, because you have known the fact from the early stages.. Please bear in mind that "there are lot's of fishes in the ocean"... it's not yet the end of everything. [/quote] i agree with kuya. don't rush things . i know it's hard recovering from a break up and seeing the one you love with another person but pain is a part of love that can never be ignored or removed. when you stepped in that kind of relationship you should have been ready to endure the pain and live your life normally no matter what happens. pain comes if love doesn't work out, that's just the way it is . don't let it stop you from living your life you still have a lot of time left to find another person who will love you and take care of you better than your last so cheer up.

oh geez thats hard... why dont you try to lay low for awhile... liek from using your friendster... make yerself busy with other stuff... coz uve mention that you use yer friendster to have some fun..but then you saw him with his new gf... i mean why dont you try to avoid those for awhile.... i know its hard...it was never easy to just forget someone that fast but u know it takes time... and besides yer still young... you have plenty of time... and youll meet many other guys ... but for now.. dont try to focus on that guy esp. he has a new gf now... youre sad and hurt and thats natural.. but its not enough reason for you to be unhappy... if u loev yer ex.. and he's happy then u should be happy for him.. for sure u deserve someone better so try to cheer up a bit... have you tried listening to songs that can make u feel better?? i know some coz u know ive been there done that... so i know how u feel

Last edited by kristina16 (2009-01-17 06:11:56)

I agree with ate Bebefatz. eu see, eu are still young and there are still many experiences and boyfriends [if ever! haha] to come to eu. but yes, it is sad though, to know that eu had just break up and less than a month or whatever, the guy already has a new one. it already happened to me. yes, the best thing is to move on, and be strong. find time to be calm and analyze every single mistake he's done to eu. girl power! sometimes, he's not worth eur tears. but anyway, if eu love him that much. just let go. ^^V

breaking up with the person you really love is as hard as trying to breath in an airless room. slowly suffocating you, giving you heartaches and slowly you're dying inside. well, moving on after the break up is a little melodramatic. i think you should heal first but in order to do that, you yourself must take the initiative and the willingness to heal and recover. try not to bother him anymore or see his profile or contact him, erase all details/memories that can reminisce each happy and sad moments you had. try not to hope also that you and him will reconcile. have fun, go out, and i think at this point in your life... it's ok to hate him (if and only if it's gonna help you heal). also, keep yourself busy and try not to think of him. after healing, stand up and recover. note: you are a strong woman/girl with full of talents and capabilities. you are stronger than heartaches and challenges. always remember, God will not give you problems and trials in life unless He knows you can solve and handle them. after recovering then you can move on. move you feet forward, anticipate the bright future that lies ahead. you are still young and so much more to learn and experience. and after moving forward, you can now let go.... of the hatred, of the heartaches, and of him. remember, we experience heartaches to remind us of how much we have loved... (you can say, i am hurt so much cause i have loved so much) you can surpass this pain you are going through, be strong! and doesn't it feel much better if you know you have passed a major trial in your life? believe me, it does and you're gonna take pride in it after all is through!! think of pain/ heartaches as a molder of your life to sharpen you and to mold you as a better and stronger person than you are right now. and never forget this.... PRAY! God is listening....

Last edited by gengskie (2009-01-18 01:45:01)