^ wow, good answer I agree. My ex gf and I....The "usual" problems we had was her lack of understanding, and her disregard to my feelings. For example, if she did something that hurt me and I would try to explain to her why she hurt me she would just simply act like "ooops, my bad, sorry" but she would only say sorry to get me to stop talking about what happened. But the times that I hurt her, I gave her all the time she wanted to rant and rave and tell me what I did that hurt her. I actually "listened" to her feelings and I had respect and compassion for how she felt but she could never give that to me. Looking back on that relationship, I truly believe that she really didn't care about anybody's feelings except her own. Her attitude was basically...."It's all about me, f**k everybody else". There was more things as well, but that was usually our biggest issue and ultimately, it's what lead to our breakup.