I agree with 'te gengks. - - - it's not okay for me to talk about his past although I can say it's normal. It's normal to asks questions but not to the extent that you have to know every detail of his past relationships. You can talk about it to recall the lesson that your boyfriend/girlfriend learned so that it can both help you. I find it quite unpleasant to gab about the traits of his past. If he talks about it([i]before[/i]), it'll always ended up a quarrel and it'll repeat & repeat & repeat all over again until you'll get used to it which is flawed. Don't compare the past to the present. It'll never the same nor perfect as you may want it to be. All you can do is use your learning from the past to your present relationship. [i]I just remember, this is one of the reasons why my past & I broke up[/i] lol [i]which is soooo reckless.[/i]

Last edited by gemandi (2008-09-13 02:29:28)