well... i never show my emotions for him when he's around.. even if im so in to him, i try to make him think the opposite side., i ignore him when he's around but deep inside, im so happy., and then this guy courted me.. would u beleive that i turned him down thrice?? yeah sounds weird., but still he continued courting me.. it lasted for almost 6 months and then finally i said "yes".. but that's just me, i dont know for the other girls...