[b][/b] for problem 1 oh. a hard problem huh.. Maybe for me, if I'm in your case, I would try to tell the boy about your feelings (don't feel disappointed whenever he reacted badly "it can be"). On the part of your friend, mmm... I think it's better for you to tell her honestly that you are jelous of her because she would feel angry if you are avoiding her without she knowing that the reason is the boy and she doing nothing to you. conclusion: accept the truth. "the boy loves your friend" don't push yourself to it if you don't want something bad will happen that can destroy the trait for you of the boy and your friend. I hope you'll understand. Good luck. [spoiler][/spoiler] jysn