[b][/b] for problem 1 oh. a hard problem huh.. Maybe for me, if I'm in your case, I would try to tell the boy about your feelings (don't feel disappointed whenever he reacted badly "it can be"). On the part of your friend, mmm... I think it's better for you to tell her honestly that you are jelous of her because she would feel angry if you are avoiding her without she knowing that the reason is the boy and she doing nothing to you. conclusion: accept the truth. "the boy loves your friend" don't push yourself to it if you don't want something bad will happen that can destroy the trait for you of the boy and your friend. I hope you'll understand. Good luck. [spoiler][/spoiler] jysn

[quote]-NiK- wrote: i have a crush on my friend(boy) and he has a crush on my bestfriend(girl) i knew it already, and it make me felt bad on my bestfriend coz she keeps on stickin up wid my crush... i avoid her once, but i tell sorry to her. Now things get miserable... my crush ignores me, and the one he's on is my bestfriend. what will i do? do i need to avoid my bestfriend? or keep seeing them two together, happy while me lonely and missing him?[/quote] well just ignore them for a while and find yourself so that if in time you see them you will not be hurt anymore ..

[quote=ino24]try to tell what you feel to your bestfriend,if she is really your friend she would understand.but don`t be to selfish in talking with her,you mught hurt her feelings.hope that i`d helped you.[/quote] siz i already did that before this case happened. We talked very nice to each other and she said that she'll just approach the boy if the boy talks to her. but her promise is made to be broken [quote=jysnjysn]Maybe for me, if I'm in your case, I would try to tell the boy about your feelings (don't feel disappointed whenever he reacted badly "it can be"). On the part of your friend, mmm... I think it's better for you to tell her honestly that you are jelous of her because she would feel angry if you are avoiding her without she knowing that the reason is the boy and she doing nothing to you. conclusion: accept the truth. "the boy loves your friend" don't push yourself to it if you don't want something bad will happen that can destroy the trait for you of the boy and your friend. I hope you'll understand. Good luck. [/quote] one day i ask the boy on his reaction when a friend has a crush on him. He said he'll avoid that person and don't accept her as his friend. I'm afraid losing a friend in my life so i just keep the pain when he and my bff is happy 2gether. the more painful is when my classmates teases them 2. your ryt siz. i better accept the truth even it is painful. [quote=xPEPPERMINTx]i try to help you with the 2nd problem. well, i think he likes you. he cheers you up when u r disappointed of your crush and best friend. but he has his own way to cheer u. he makes you laughing by teasing you. that boy really really cares of u. i might say, he likes you. well, i know not all boys who cheer a girl like her. but when he blushed, it's not a usual habit of boy, i think. you shouldn't ask him. i just expect that he'll get mad if u ask. hmph. better wait for his next action! [/quote] yeah siz someone said that to me that he likes me but i don't get it serious. Sometimes i watch his actions inside the class and i caught him maybe 3 times looking at me seriously then when i caught him he'll just put his eyes off me fast. [quote=dorkalicious.o1]well just ignore them for a while and find yourself so that if in time you see them you will not be hurt anymore ..[/quote] i also did it siz but it don't lessen my problem coz doing that will further on lose a 2 friend of mine [quote=malow]i think he likes you [/quote] haha siz i think that also. but if he likes me, why don't he tell me