This is friendstertalk. Most of the topics here should be about friendster right? Some post are from last year, how come nobody notice it ? Does it mean the moderator are violating the rules too? Well admin take a few minute to look on those thread. Anyway that is only a suggestion and this is not my site . For my opinion site pm is still the safe place 'cause you're not posting it on public (which is against the rules). Have a good day