[quote=mark5818]i think if a girl is not virgin then...thats bad but if a boy is not virgin... its not a big deal... [/quote] ~it's unfair right..? we have this *double standard* in our community.. [quote=annxchen]uhhmm... maybe it makes your reputation bad in the society or people think you've done it already. [/quote] ~yeah.. i agree with you.. people thinks that your dirty if your not a virgin anymore..