[img]http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/kk243/dwyt_suerte/BAGO-KUNG-LAYOUTA.gif[/img] i think so!!!

[quote=mark5818]i think if a girl is not virgin then...thats bad but if a boy is not virgin... its not a big deal... [/quote] ~it's unfair right..? we have this *double standard* in our community.. [quote=annxchen]uhhmm... maybe it makes your reputation bad in the society or people think you've done it already. [/quote] ~yeah.. i agree with you.. people thinks that your dirty if your not a virgin anymore..

[quote=akoba]Not only that.. Think about the respect you will get on your partner if you girls are still a virgin.[/quote] yeah i agree

[quote=annxchen]uhhmm... maybe it makes your reputation bad in the society or people think you've done it already. [/quote] Not really, sweetie. Being not a virgin is not a tag for being a taboo in the society just because you had pre-marital sex. It's a New-Age era and I don't think it would still be a big deal if girls are no longer virgins anymore. The big deal now is virgins who didn't handle it properly so they ended getting pregnant. Now who do you really think deserves respect? [quote=ekzm]~yeah.. i agree with you.. people thinks that your dirty if your not a virgin anymore..[/quote] As for men, it's a part of growing up because they are uber sensitive when it comes to sex. Men won't even bother if a woman is no longer a virgin. If they got a virgin girl on the bed, they will think first "Is it alright coz I'm her first? I think I should be responsible doing this." And it's up to the girl if she is so paranoid to stick on what people believe. Sure, some people will disrespect her but if the girl is proud and she's not doing anything bad, why would people bother? It's just sex. She didn't even get pregnant, that means she's a clever woman!

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:disgust:jhaney-owtuelveh:disgust: ohh,,all of the guys were agressive ,,!!! that's why that's natural for them..

In my humble opinion, Virginity is a big deal for those people who are very religious because they sacred many things and they're afraid to make a mistake, but in some country many people believe that virginity is no big deal even she/he commits sin many times.

[quote=ekzm]~yeah.. i agree with you.. people thinks that your dirty if your not a virgin anymore..[/quote] i dont agree with that... being not a virgin doesnt mean ur dirty but it means that u have fulfilled ur life loving a person..

[color=#cc33ff]Virginity is a treasure a girl should keep. Even though everyone pushes us to be liberated blah blah blah, it is really special when a girl values her virginity as much as she values herself. It's not just about morality, it's self preservation. xD[/color]

[quote=empurpled]Virginity is a treasure a girl should keep. Even though everyone pushes us to be liberated blah blah blah, it is really special when a girl values her virginity as much as she values herself. It's not just about morality, it's self preservation. xD[/quote] [quote=bles_212000]For girls It's a big deal.. because lots of boys still want their wife to be a virgin.. It's like a gift for us boys. [/quote] Marriage is not a finale for couples to fulfill their relationship. It's not even a good reason for giving up their virginity or "self-preservation" for their partners. Marriage is just a sanction to church - to God. This explains it: [quote=GeeLiuBee]In my humble opinion, Virginity is a big deal for those people who are very religious because they sacred many things and they're afraid to make a mistake, but in some country many people believe that virginity is no big deal even she/he commits sin many times. [/quote] Sure, it's really a gift for boys. Look at those unwanted pregnancies. Most women carry themselves in front of the altar because they're pregnant and men did this to push their relationships to marriage A.S.A.P. It's a perfect dilemma for virgin women because a lot of men will think of it when they got a virgin girlfriend, they want to OWN them FOREVER and girls would really suffer and regret especially when they are still young. Families will think of it that you already did that so you should be responsible for it. Girls will get the blame. Boys will be happier. Now do you want to become like this?