[quote=empurpled]Virginity is a treasure a girl should keep. Even though everyone pushes us to be liberated blah blah blah, it is really special when a girl values her virginity as much as she values herself. It's not just about morality, it's self preservation. xD[/quote] [quote=bles_212000]For girls It's a big deal.. because lots of boys still want their wife to be a virgin.. It's like a gift for us boys. [/quote] Marriage is not a finale for couples to fulfill their relationship. It's not even a good reason for giving up their virginity or "self-preservation" for their partners. Marriage is just a sanction to church - to God. This explains it: [quote=GeeLiuBee]In my humble opinion, Virginity is a big deal for those people who are very religious because they sacred many things and they're afraid to make a mistake, but in some country many people believe that virginity is no big deal even she/he commits sin many times. [/quote] Sure, it's really a gift for boys. Look at those unwanted pregnancies. Most women carry themselves in front of the altar because they're pregnant and men did this to push their relationships to marriage A.S.A.P. It's a perfect dilemma for virgin women because a lot of men will think of it when they got a virgin girlfriend, they want to OWN them FOREVER and girls would really suffer and regret especially when they are still young. Families will think of it that you already did that so you should be responsible for it. Girls will get the blame. Boys will be happier. Now do you want to become like this?