if both of u still love each other and wants to be bak in each others arms why won't u do it..?!.. past is past and the most important things is today and future for both of u.. just learn to forgive and forget.. does he already told u the main reason why he didn't tell u that he will be going to the U. S..? maybe he has a major reason why he didn't inform u//.. just ask hin the reason and if it is reasonable and u want to have him back then go..