everyone has good points here. the most that attracts my attention was that post regarding the "real" purpose of friendstertalk. actually that is also my primary purpose why i joined here yet later on i was getting fond of posting in other sections not related to tweaks. especially in confession thread where see lots of flamings in the past nwei about that "freedom" we are talking about here might only get into someone says the interpretations of irresponsible/responsible same as mature/ immature freedom. we see here there are different human natures. the problem of flaming that can occur to that suggested thread/section maybe can be prevented i think. how? i was thinking about rules to be implemented in that certain thread/section. like for instance,,, "this is just my observation huh to some flames that is happening or has happened here" a rule of "no quoting of one's post" post. flaming only starts when one reacted nor complains to someone and the other party will react. mature people tend to defend themselves rather than start flaming and some will tend to throw malicious/"trashtalks" terms towards the complainants. that is when rule no 4 is violated. if the thread will only show "defend-defend posts" withput quote and quoting of others ... i hope you get my point here. i also want to point this out. posts with flames will only humiliate who? remember that everyone's post can reflect their attitudes/traits/human nature/breeding etch in their real life. am i right? i think if this will be implemented it can be in private status that only legitimate members here can only view the thread like in e-groups or something like posts requirements like what is implemented in invisible status. no offense that there are flames here that is brought by mostly newbies again no offense. well im not into flaming here co'z im not a kid anymore. just sharing what can brought harmonious relationships towards members/moderators. offtopic: let's all enjoy the yuletide season. merry xmas all