i agree.. most often they third parties are the cause of break ups! [quote]confessions of a third party: i like it when he remembers me, only to find out his girl is gone. i like it when he tells me he loves me, only to find out he doesn't have anybody else to text. i like it when he's extra sweet, only to find out he and his girl had a big fight. i like it when he spends his time with me, only coz his girl couldn't find time for him. i don't take pleasure in hurting his girl's feeling coz i know at the end of the day, it's still her and not me he'll come home to[/quote]