[quote=armiesy]how can i move on or forget the person that is part of my life? it is better to get mad at him because he cheat on me. it is better that i give him a 2nd chance but he break up with me. it is better to love him after he cheat on me? it is better to lose our communication as friend so that i will forget him easily? it is better that i push him to other girls? it is better that i cried infront of him after he cheat on me? it is better to say sweet saying on him?[/quote] I don't agree from some part of plurk opinion. [b]My opinion:[/b] [b] First[/b] He is part of your life now. No matter how you try, you cannot the reality that once upon a time. You love him. [b]Second[/b] Getting [b]mad[/b] and [b]angry[/b] is not the option. It will only cause another conflict between you and the guy. [b]Third[/b] Second chance maybe given if he rally deserve. [b]Forth[/b] Instead of loving him, try not love him a while. ( I agree with Hoshigaki). Give time for your self. Love your self a little bit more than to love him. [b]Fifth[/b] Cutting communication might be the option. This might help you realize so many things about you and him. [b]Sixth[/b]: Don't push him to the other girls. Let him decide on his own. If he let it go. It is his losses. (I agree with plurk). [b]Seventh[/b] Sometimes, crying is the best option. But, does your tears deserve for him? [b]Eight[/b] Avoid saying sweet things to him after he done. It might hurt you too, even he doesn't feel the same way as you are. Like I said. Try to love your self a little bit more. Than loving him. hating him, will never be a good option. Hurting each other will only cause you more pain. Remember:[b] "Love is never be a mistake."[/b]

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