[quote=armiesy]panu po ako makakapagmove on or kalilimutan ung taong naging part na ng life ko? dapat ba ako magalit sa kanya dhil niloko nya lang ako? tama lng ba na binigyan ko xa ng 2nd chance pero bireak din nya ako? tama lng ba na minamahal ko pa xa kht niloko nya ako? dapat ba na mawala na ung communication namin as friends para madali ko xang makalimutan? tama lang ba na i-push ko xa sa ibang tao? tama lng ba na iyakan ko xa after nya akong lokohin? tama lng ba na magbitiw ako ng mga salitang sweet sa kanya? [/quote] hmm thats a hard problem you have.. but first of all plss talk in English Here

thanks plurk...now i know what to do...^^ thanks so much..:rose:

[quote=armiesy]how can i move on or forget the person that is part of my life? it is better to get mad at him because he cheat on me. it is better that i give him a 2nd chance but he break up with me. it is better to love him after he cheat on me? it is better to lose our communication as friend so that i will forget him easily? it is better that i push him to other girls? it is better that i cried infront of him after he cheat on me? it is better to say sweet saying on him? [/quote] Well in my opinion , Try to not to love for awhile bcoz your still broken. if you think you can love ones more why not? but better look for a person who will love you for real. not the ones whos just using you. so be picky.

[quote=armiesy]how can i move on or forget the person that is part of my life? it is better to get mad at him because he cheat on me. it is better that i give him a 2nd chance but he break up with me. it is better to love him after he cheat on me? it is better to lose our communication as friend so that i will forget him easily? it is better that i push him to other girls? it is better that i cried infront of him after he cheat on me? it is better to say sweet saying on him?[/quote] I don't agree from some part of plurk opinion. [b]My opinion:[/b] [b] First[/b] He is part of your life now. No matter how you try, you cannot the reality that once upon a time. You love him. [b]Second[/b] Getting [b]mad[/b] and [b]angry[/b] is not the option. It will only cause another conflict between you and the guy. [b]Third[/b] Second chance maybe given if he rally deserve. [b]Forth[/b] Instead of loving him, try not love him a while. ( I agree with Hoshigaki). Give time for your self. Love your self a little bit more than to love him. [b]Fifth[/b] Cutting communication might be the option. This might help you realize so many things about you and him. [b]Sixth[/b]: Don't push him to the other girls. Let him decide on his own. If he let it go. It is his losses. (I agree with plurk). [b]Seventh[/b] Sometimes, crying is the best option. But, does your tears deserve for him? [b]Eight[/b] Avoid saying sweet things to him after he done. It might hurt you too, even he doesn't feel the same way as you are. Like I said. Try to love your self a little bit more. Than loving him. hating him, will never be a good option. Hurting each other will only cause you more pain. Remember:[b] "Love is never be a mistake."[/b]

Last edited by vanraid (2009-01-10 11:07:49)

If you really love him.. then.. XD He's a human,.. xD Give him a 2nd chance but if he cheated again to you.. then.. move on.. XD

[spoiler][spoiler]armiesy wrote: panu po ako makakapagmove on or kalilimutan ung taong naging part na ng life ko? dapat ba ako magalit sa kanya dhil niloko nya lang ako? tama lng ba na binigyan ko xa ng 2nd chance pero bireak din nya ako? tama lng ba na minamahal ko pa xa kht niloko nya ako? dapat ba na mawala na ung communication namin as friends para madali ko xang makalimutan? tama lang ba na i-push ko xa sa ibang tao? tama lng ba na iyakan ko xa after nya akong lokohin? tama lng ba na magbitiw ako ng mga salitang sweet sa kanya? [/spoiler] [quote=armiesy]how can i move on or forget the person that is part of my life? it is better to get mad at him because he cheat on me. it is better that i give him a 2nd chance but he break up with me. it is better to love him after he cheat on me? it is better to lose our communication as friend so that i will forget him easily? it is better that i push him to other girls? it is better that i cried infront of him after he cheat on me? it is better to say sweet saying on him? [/quote] [/spoiler] you really translated it. [quote=pLurK]and NO your communication must not end just because you want to forget about him, he may end up being one of your most precious friends[/quote] dont agree with this one... i think it would be better if you lose communications with him.. that way you can forget him and move on.. if you keep communications with him, you will STILL THINK OF HIM EVERY HOUR EVERY NIGHT AND ENJOY EVERY SINGLE MOMENT YOU ARE TALKING.. still , you can't move on.. i tried that before.. i still kept in contact with someone in my past who told me to cut communications with him so that he could forget me.. i kept sending him messages, i thought i can forget him more if i keep that thing.. cause i miss him when he is not texting me, but what happened was, when i stopped texting him, stopped thinking about him, stopped thinking about how i could get even, and stopped getting updates and news from him, that was when i started to forget. i enjoyed the company of other people.. other friends who i took for granted when he was there.. *gee.. it's normal that when you have someone in your life, your life may revolve around him* enjoy yourself. get busy with other things. life has its own way of healing wounds.. and maybe that friendship thing that pLurk is talking about, that could happen if the wound is completely healed. when you have really moved forward with your life and you are already contented and happy with someone else..