[quote=vanraid]I don't agree from some part of plurk opinion. My opinion: First He is part of your life now. No matter how you try, you cannot the reality that once upon a time. You love him. Second Getting mad and angry is not the option. It will only cause another conflict between you and the guy. Third Second chance maybe given if he rally deserve. Forth Instead of loving him, try not love him a while. ( I agree with Hoshigaki). Give time for your self. Love your self a little bit more than to love him. Fifth Cutting communication might be the option. This might help you realize so many things about you and him. Sixth: Don't push him to the other girls. Let him decide on his own. If he let it go. It is his losses. (I agree with plurk). Seventh Sometimes, crying is the best option. But, does your tears deserve for him? Eight Avoid saying sweet things to him after he done. It might hurt you too, even he doesn't feel the same way as you are. Like I said. Try to love your self a little bit more. Than loving him. hating him, will never be a good option. Hurting each other will only cause you more pain. Remember: "Love is never be a mistake."[/quote] yeah i agree with this one too