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My gf and I broke up last week. Her reason was: "I'm getting tired of you." She said she wants some space and that, I shouldn't talk to her for a while. But can I do that if we're classmates? These p
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My gf and I broke up last week. Her reason was: "I'm getting tired of you." She said she wants some space and that, I shouldn't talk to her for a while. But can I do that if we're classmates? These p
[quote=blackmamba;#3637978;1277150119]@topic: Good job preoccupying yourself. 
Ah, she texted? I hate it when that happens. Hahaha. We didn't talk for about 2-3 weeks after the break up (which made my life easier) but then he texted, telling me the exact same thing. 
I went back to square one. Ugh.
I rejected his friendship until I've fully moved on. And he respected that. I guess that's how I coped. It's hard being friends with someone but you want to be more than that. :\
23 days after we broke up, he got himself a new girl. I didn't know until 5 months after. My advice is, don't be scared or worried for now. Yes, the time will come where she will probably be with somebody else, but for now don't worry about it because it's going to make it harder to move on. The pain was unbearable, but I managed. And I'm sure you will, too. 
Little by little, the pain goes away. And who knows? You might meet somebody that would take all that pain away. ^^
Back then, I kept on thinking that I wouldn't be able to fall for somebody else because I loved him so much. But somebody else came along and proved me wrong. That 'somebody' for you will come along, too. So you just have to be strong for now. :]
It may sound cliche, but things do happen for a reason. 
Last edited by blackmamba (2010-06-21 19:56:24)[/quote]
waaaaa... ate it's so hard to move on in my situation.
i already accepted that she doesn't care for me anymore,
because i've seen her with her new suitor just the other day.
but that didn't change my feelings for her at all.
i just want her back more and more everyday.
i always see her because we're classmates,
i always *accidentally* glance at her while were inside our classroom.
all my thoughts are just full of her.
what can i do to let go? 
if possible i would transfer in some other school just to that.
but i think what i'm feeling right now is fear of her being with somebody else,
while i'm here living a miserable life.
when i was with her, we're always happy and it made me always think that i have a great life.
now she left me, and i don't think that the things i'm doing to move on are working.
instead, i'm missing her more. 
Ah, she texted? I hate it when that happens. Hahaha. We didn't talk for about 2-3 weeks after the break up (which made my life easier) but then he texted, telling me the exact same thing. I went back to square one. Ugh.
I rejected his friendship until I've fully moved on. And he respected that. I guess that's how I coped. It's hard being friends with someone but you want to be more than that. :\
23 days after we broke up, he got himself a new girl. I didn't know until 5 months after. My advice is, don't be scared or worried for now. Yes, the time will come where she will probably be with somebody else, but for now don't worry about it because it's going to make it harder to move on. The pain was unbearable, but I managed. And I'm sure you will, too. Little by little, the pain goes away. And who knows? You might meet somebody that would take all that pain away. ^^
Back then, I kept on thinking that I wouldn't be able to fall for somebody else because I loved him so much. But somebody else came along and proved me wrong. That 'somebody' for you will come along, too. So you just have to be strong for now. :]
It may sound cliche, but things do happen for a reason.
Last edited by blackmamba (2010-06-21 19:56:24)[/quote]
waaaaa... ate it's so hard to move on in my situation.
i already accepted that she doesn't care for me anymore,
because i've seen her with her new suitor just the other day.
but that didn't change my feelings for her at all.
i just want her back more and more everyday.
i always see her because we're classmates,
i always *accidentally* glance at her while were inside our classroom.
all my thoughts are just full of her.
what can i do to let go?
if possible i would transfer in some other school just to that.
but i think what i'm feeling right now is fear of her being with somebody else,
while i'm here living a miserable life.
when i was with her, we're always happy and it made me always think that i have a great life.
now she left me, and i don't think that the things i'm doing to move on are working.
instead, i'm missing her more.
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