I think you should move on, You deserve someone better!

[quote=OMG!...Fab is there;#3635025;1276921535]I think you should move on, You deserve someone better! [/quote] but how? araw araw ko siyang nkikita. at worse pa dun masyado niyang pinapakita na parang ang saya saya niya sa mga nangyayari. and hindi pa maiwasan na minsan eh magkagroup kami sa mga activities.

Yeah cheer up kapitansino........I know how you feel right now........things that happen just take it as a Testfrom God yeah.....but we ourself have to get on with life.....God will not close one door without opening the other door for you, he has a great path for you im sure so don't be sad its normal that this things happen.

[align=center][b]Just like what happened to me...me and my ex-bf broke up on our 1st year anniversary We are working in one company and working in one team It's hard seeing your ex-bf/gf everyday and then you don't talk to each other even if you're just in one team When we broke up I was also a bit bitter pa but I had moved on na Nothing will happen eh,, You deserve someone better[/b][/align]

[quote=blackmamba;#3636151;1276983305]Anyway, I know how hard it is. My ex and I weren't classmates, but we were batchmates and our classrooms are just beside each other. We broke up during the summer, but it was only about a week before school started. As much as I hated it, seeing him (though not as often as you since you're classmates with her) happy and moving on was very hard. It was heartbreaking. I wanted him back. People cope differently, but I think the only way you could do right now is to be with your friends as much as possible. Friends make it seem less lonely. :] It's hard and it takes time. It took me 9 months to be completely over him. You may be able to 'move on' faster or slower, but you will. Just give it time. Ok? Preoccupy yourself with things you like doing. If you don't feel like it, then at least try. Also, she told you to back off for a while, so you should do that. Maybe she'll realize that she wants you back in the future. Don't hope, but just follow what her request. You may not be able to get her back if you keep on pushing yourself into her world.[/quote] the greatest advice i'd ever heard. thank you.

[quote=ubenchx;#3636297;1277001994]Do you know Bob Ong? S/he is one of my favorite authors in this country. Anyway, I felt your situation dude. I know its easy to say that your moving on but its really difficult to do so. You should get a hobby to keep yourself busy and by this you can somehow forget the feelings you have for your ex. You can't blame your ex-girlfriend if she don't love you anymore, she maybe bored or felt the cold feeling to you. I know the sadness you are feeling about the break up and your eagerness for another chance for you to be together. And I think I should be harsh to tell you that you should face the reality that she don't love you anymore. And don't hope for another chance, because if she really love you she will not feel the coldness of you. Lastly, you deserve someone better and I think you are still young, you will meet a lot of girls who are more deserving that your ex. So dude, cheer up and move on. K?[/quote] Yup thats another solution of getting rid of prob.......I agree.

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[quote=kapitansino;#3636196;1276993023]the greatest advice i'd ever heard. thank you. [/quote] Oh. Haha. Thank you, it means a lot. ^^ -- [b]@topic:[/b] Good job preoccupying yourself. Ah, she texted? I hate it when that happens. Hahaha. We didn't talk for about 2-3 weeks after the break up (which made my life easier) but then he texted, telling me the exact same thing. I went back to square one. Ugh. I rejected his friendship until I've fully moved on. And he respected that. I guess that's how I coped. It's hard being friends with someone but you want to be [i]more[/i] than that. :\ 23 days after we broke up, he got himself a new girl. I didn't know until 5 months after. My advice is, don't be scared or worried for now. Yes, the time will come where she will probably be with somebody else, but for now don't worry about it because it's going to make it harder to move on. The pain was unbearable, but I managed. And I'm sure you will, too. Little by little, the pain goes away. And who knows? You might meet somebody that would take all that pain away. ^^ Back then, I kept on thinking that I wouldn't be able to fall for somebody else because I loved him so much. But somebody else came along and proved me wrong. That 'somebody' for you will come along, too. So you just have to be strong for now. :] It may sound cliche, but things [i]do[/i] happen for a reason.

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[quote=kapitansino;#3639565;1277378997] waaaaa... ate it's so hard to move on in my situation. i already accepted that she doesn't care for me anymore, because i've seen her with her new suitor just the other day. but that didn't change my feelings for her at all. i just want her back more and more everyday. i always see her because we're classmates, i always *accidentally* glance at her while were inside our classroom. all my thoughts are just full of her. what can i do to let go? if possible i would transfer in some other school just to that. but i think what i'm feeling right now is fear of her being with somebody else, while i'm here living a miserable life. when i was with her, we're always happy and it made me always think that i have a great life. now she left me, and i don't think that the things i'm doing to move on are working. instead, i'm missing her more. [/quote] You're calling me "ate" when you're older than me? Anyway, I know it's hard... I can't fully empathize with you, because everybody's situation is different, no matter how similar it may seem with ours. :\ But I do understand what you're feeling right now. Been there, done that, my friend. We're not classmates, but I always see him in the corridor everytime I go out of the classroom. It was as if life wanted me to suffer more. :< No matter how much I keep on telling myself not to glance or care anymore, I still do. I even made him a heart origami. And inside that heart, I told him I love him for like, a thousand times. Pathetic, I know. I don't even know why I did that. o.O But yeah. It hurts and it's hard. Nobody can let go of somebody they love that quickly. Like I said, it takes time. So just wait and let time heal everything. :\ He even asked me if it was too much for me to handle... because if it was, then he'd transfer to another school. I doubt his parents would've let him do that, but he asked anyway. Obviously, I said no because I still wanted him around, no matter how much it hurts. People who get left behind have that fear. It's natural. There will be times where you just feel like breaking down because you miss her too much, but that's part of moving on and letting go. Once you've accepted that you guys aren't together anymore, then it would get easier. I know it's hard, but that's the only way. :< Like I said, it took me 9 months. I even deemed my cellphone worthless because for 3 years, nobody texted me as much as he did, because we texted everyday. When he left, it was like my cellphone was dead as well. I didn't even bother loading it because I have nobody else. Eventually, it got easier and I managed to find happiness in things. Then my current boyfriend came along and just made it a whole lot better. Whatever the reason is, you'll also realize someday that all was for the best. Try doodling in class or talking about stuff with your other classmates. Do anything that would keep you from glancing at her. Please don't think of this as me bringing you down, but I too once did that. But in the end, I asked myself, "What the hell am I doing?" Make an effort to let her know that you want to work things out, but don't push yourself in her life, too. No matter how much effort you put, if she really doesn't want to be with you anymore, then nothing's going to change that. ;__; Keep trying to make yourself happy. You deserve it.

lol. your ex. girlfriend is a slut. find someone else. she's not worth it.