[quote=kapitansino;#3639565;1277378997] waaaaa... ate it's so hard to move on in my situation. i already accepted that she doesn't care for me anymore, because i've seen her with her new suitor just the other day. but that didn't change my feelings for her at all. i just want her back more and more everyday. i always see her because we're classmates, i always *accidentally* glance at her while were inside our classroom. all my thoughts are just full of her. what can i do to let go? if possible i would transfer in some other school just to that. but i think what i'm feeling right now is fear of her being with somebody else, while i'm here living a miserable life. when i was with her, we're always happy and it made me always think that i have a great life. now she left me, and i don't think that the things i'm doing to move on are working. instead, i'm missing her more. [/quote] You're calling me "ate" when you're older than me? Anyway, I know it's hard... I can't fully empathize with you, because everybody's situation is different, no matter how similar it may seem with ours. :\ But I do understand what you're feeling right now. Been there, done that, my friend. We're not classmates, but I always see him in the corridor everytime I go out of the classroom. It was as if life wanted me to suffer more. :< No matter how much I keep on telling myself not to glance or care anymore, I still do. I even made him a heart origami. And inside that heart, I told him I love him for like, a thousand times. Pathetic, I know. I don't even know why I did that. o.O But yeah. It hurts and it's hard. Nobody can let go of somebody they love that quickly. Like I said, it takes time. So just wait and let time heal everything. :\ He even asked me if it was too much for me to handle... because if it was, then he'd transfer to another school. I doubt his parents would've let him do that, but he asked anyway. Obviously, I said no because I still wanted him around, no matter how much it hurts. People who get left behind have that fear. It's natural. There will be times where you just feel like breaking down because you miss her too much, but that's part of moving on and letting go. Once you've accepted that you guys aren't together anymore, then it would get easier. I know it's hard, but that's the only way. :< Like I said, it took me 9 months. I even deemed my cellphone worthless because for 3 years, nobody texted me as much as he did, because we texted everyday. When he left, it was like my cellphone was dead as well. I didn't even bother loading it because I have nobody else. Eventually, it got easier and I managed to find happiness in things. Then my current boyfriend came along and just made it a whole lot better. Whatever the reason is, you'll also realize someday that all was for the best. Try doodling in class or talking about stuff with your other classmates. Do anything that would keep you from glancing at her. Please don't think of this as me bringing you down, but I too once did that. But in the end, I asked myself, "What the hell am I doing?" Make an effort to let her know that you want to work things out, but don't push yourself in her life, too. No matter how much effort you put, if she really doesn't want to be with you anymore, then nothing's going to change that. ;__; Keep trying to make yourself happy. You deserve it.