well, before i always say that if i had to choose between to love or be loved, i always answer with be loved.. but things turn upside down when i had this friend who confessed that he loves me.. thats when i realized that i'll be good with loving than to be loved i still can handle the pain of loving someone who doesnt love me back but i couldnt bear the feeling of hurting someone who loves me much.. i'll just hurt him coz i know i coudnt return the love he has for me.. so i turned him down.. its best to tell him early about wat i feel than to make him wait for nothing..