well, before i always say that if i had to choose between to love or be loved, i always answer with be loved.. but things turn upside down when i had this friend who confessed that he loves me.. thats when i realized that i'll be good with loving than to be loved i still can handle the pain of loving someone who doesnt love me back but i couldnt bear the feeling of hurting someone who loves me much.. i'll just hurt him coz i know i coudnt return the love he has for me.. so i turned him down.. its best to tell him early about wat i feel than to make him wait for nothing..

to love . . . [i]"Actions speaks louder than words what if I can not act with my words?"[/i]

to be loved .. - im not selfish .. i just want to prevent 'being hurt'

I want to be the one loving. It's difficult to have an unrequited love, but loving someone doesn't mean that he needs to reciprocate your feelings. Being accepted is enough. Really, learning how to love others is already a great deal.