If murder is not a sin, I'd probably kill him. XD Just kidding. Well, others would say, 'oh, it's alright. he's not my loss, im his loss'. But actually, we just say it to remind ourselves that we're okay when we're actually not; defense mechanism in other words. In your case, don't think about it too much. There are many guys in the world. God has someone for you. So just wait and pray for it.