No bcoz virginity is not the issue here but i would love to know that im the first person for her...

yes, because you only have to do it with the one you truly love and that you're sure that s/he's the one who you will marry in the future. the only problem is, in a relationship, there are so many uncertainties that eventhough you think that you're sure s/he's the one, you end up falling apart. so it's better to have sex after you get married.. at least you won't have sinned when you do that in the right time.

...i think this is not a good topic... but anyway im gonna share my opinion... yes..it does...

Last edited by pauline416 (2008-09-29 03:29:17)

it depends lol If u really love ur gf then u must accept her even though she's no longer is virgin ^_^ @ topic important dunno lol hahaha

Most people say it's important but men (who says it is) would attempt to do it before getting married because "I want to know if you still are before I marry you" reason. Girls (who also say it's important) gives in when their BF asks for it because of one reason "I really love him and I will surrender it to him because I know he will never leave me.." (assuming that he's really the one.) Virginity really doesn't matter that much to me, it is not the sole thing that love is based upon.

Honestly, it's not as much of a big deal as it was a decade ago. Most of the teens I know living here have already lost theirs.

[b]YES!![/b] for me, it doesnt matter if my parter is not a virgin..(its normal coz he's a guy) but its really important for me to be a virgin for my man..thats my principle., coz my uncle once said, "if ur a virgin until ur wedding day, ur man really cant afford to leave u..specially for us Filipinos"

call me old fashioned but definitely yes.... if you value yourself, you should save it for the man who will marry you and if the man valueds and really loves you he will respect your decision

[quote=bad_boy20]for me no.. coz even ur partner is not a virgin anymore the bootom line is u love her as much as u love urslf..!![/quote] well. maybe you haven't known it yet. but you will soon know what will you feel if your gal isn't virgin anymore. for me, yes. coz virginity is a very important thing for females. and we MUST keep it for the right person.

[quote]if the man valueds and really loves you he will respect your decision[/quote] Yes, he will respect your decision and he will try to screw someone else. Most men are like that nowadays. Virginity may be important for you but not for younger generations, not all of course but majority of teenagers. I think the word "virginity" doesn't matter that much to young ones because if it does, well, we wouldn't have pregnant girls at the age of 17 below, right? Early pregnancy or underage pregnancy is now gaining popularity in the Philippines, try visiting a local health center near your place and you'll be amazed how many underage girls are there for checkups. They like hangging out in night clubs or just about anywhere teenagers gather along to meet "friends" and then they learn how to smoke, how to drink and they get drunk and they no longer know what they are doing and the rest is history.

Last edited by eBay Ghost (2008-09-30 14:32:37)