letting go..
true it hurts, but its more hurtful if you on #1 b a third party, then whats the point in loving him 4 urself
on #2 sometimes even if you w8, it will not come true or you wont get what you want #3 its better to let go, because it only proves that you truly love that person to set them free,.. but as they say " there r lot of fishes in the sea"