I think it's both, depending on the situation (though I haven't been in a relationship before, I can relate lol).. Sometimes thinking of him makes me so happy, I get in the mood to study or do stuff... Sometimes though I get distracted in my schoolwork because of him...
[align=center][color=#FF99cc].. uhmm it depends on how you handLe it..
but my b0o is really my inspiration but
i think for him im distraction!! wahahaha..
he wont go to his class
if we would be having an LQ instead
he'll wait for me all day long at the gate of our campus..
hahahahha.. so [i]kilig[/i]! hehehe[/color][/align]
It might be inspiration or destruction. It depends. like for example, you are just giving your time to your gf/bf, while you didnt have time in your studies. it will totally destruct your studies.
Depends on their attitude.!!
if the gf or bf both love to study,..
they can do it..
++ spend time together
But if one of you or both
love to slack around..
then uh,,
whatever.
say bye to future.
haha.