for me both,
y?
inspiration,
because u strive harder to study
and do better for your future because u want
the best for u and ur partner
and maybe your partner is one factor for u to be the best,
the distraction,
we all know that everything that is too much is bad,
lets take when ur obsessed or somewhat so much inlove with your partner
which can result in a bad manner,
wow.
balance is stll important in a relationship