Let's put it this way, a job of the moderators is to report, zap, lock, close, curse, ban what is against the forum rules. but part of it is to enjoy and have fun, and to interact and communicate to the members [b]PROPERLY[/b]. in return, members are asked to respect and also communicate with them [b]POLITELY[/b]. i first talk about moderators since they should be the role models, a good example for the other members to follow. maybe what toshiyaDEG is pointing out is probably some of them aren't being a good example. --- the only way to close this issue is to communicate and comprehend. incidents like this can still be fixed. all we need is to talk with them and understand each other. nobody's perfect anyways.