I went through the same situation. I already have a boyfriend then, when my present boyfirned started texting me. You see, Communication is very important for me. And my ex seems enjoying his life that time as if he doesn't have a commitment. My ex and my present boyfriend were my former classmates in highschool, and gosh, they're friends. I feel guilty in a sense that I've been unfair on my ex's part. But I don't have any regrets at all. My ex and my present boyfriend remained friends. My ex and I became civil, though were not talking w/ each other anymore. The best thing to do is THINK, what does this girl feels for you? Does she feel the same way? If yes, try to talk to her. Because if she really do she would choose you though it would really be hard on her part. But if she don't, then you should accept the fact that you're not really meant for each other. It would hurt many people, but HELLO? that's what love is all about.. PAIN and ALL. -based on experience?! haha

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