yeh im now experiencing that thing... [spoiler]i try to avoid him at first. but i also think if i avoid him, what would be the reason when he ask me? diba...so i continue falling in him... then one day...[spoiler]i found myself bleeding,drowning in tears becoz fof the truth that he luv my bestfriend. it hurts.[spoiler]and that's a big OUCH to me. see what happened? it happened becoz i use the "heart over mind" rule. [/spoiler][/spoiler][/spoiler]