@meng I really agree with what you commented on Yuna. I remember when the time I had the chance to chat with Yuna. But now, it's like Yuna is mirror that reflects Shirow's attitude. And also yeah, I realised that she is one of the pioneer of this forum. She must be one of the models that other moderators should look upon to. -- [spoiler][quote=meng.03]You're a well experienced mod..i've seen you in mct before, the thing is most people do not appreciate you. You are strict. You can be as stubborn as you want to be. You flame, you curse - that's the perception most of us see in you. Behind those sarcastic remarks, those actions you've done, the chaos happening when you act upon a member, the outrage they make, you are still seen as a bad guy. I know you know it pretty well, how people treat you. How they wanted you down. But believe me, you've shown enough effort to gain my respect. There were times that i do not agree with you, and i know you don't always agree with me. The thing is, no matter how people perceive your attitude, I'm fully aware that you still aim for the wellness of this community.[/quote] [/spoiler] Actually meng I admit I was harsh before but I am very sure that I changed already. Why? Because I don't curse or ban any members anymore. Too lazy to bother doing it, or rather have not much time to do it. And when it comes to arguments, I see to it to read the discussions and both sides first before I give my opinion. One member I talked recently said that I am more scary than before because this member thought that I am showing my mature side, calm, and objective. But actually I am just tired of arguing anyone online. It's non-sense and stupid.