uhm. normally, boys should do the first move for the boys will be the one who courts the girl and the boy is the one who will give much affection to the girl. so the boys should do the first move. if the girls will do the first move. isn't that awkward? some would say the girl is a flirt if the girl will do the first move. the girl can show obvious gestures to the boy for the boy to know that the girl likes him. if both are shy, destiny rolls. haha that's a tragic dilemma if the boy loves the girl secretly so with the girl. haha. thats the often mistakes of human beings, they tend to do the move if they are competent to their movements. haha