[quote=ashely_pain15;#3515191;1270739957]hi. i have a problem here. my boyfriend ended our relationship coz he said he doesn't want a commitment when we go to college ( we'll go to diff. university,a 7hour-travel indeed) i told him we can work it out, trust is only needed. but he said he wants me to be free at mahirap daw kalaban ang distance. since every sembreak lng dw kami pwedeng magkita. he also said that, after 4 years, and we bump to each other we can still bring it back. i just want to win him back, it hurts to know that we broke up though we both know that we still love each other. hope you can help me.. thanks[/quote] How long have you guys been dating before you two broke up? Anyway, mystic rain has said pretty much everything so I'm just gonna add a little more. You should know that not all guys are willing to be in a "long-distance relationship" even if your universities are just 7 hours apart. (I'm not saying it's near, but anyway.) Most guys build a relationship through proximity. Most of them don't want to worry about being 7 hours away from their girlfriends and stuff like that. I guess it's just how some guys really are. Although, to be honest, I think if he really wants to be with you, then he wouldn't mind a 7-hour difference in your universities. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him why. I mean, you already know that he doesn't want a "long-distance" relationship, but I dunno, make him explain it more, perhaps? Because if he really doesn't want to be in that kind of relationship, sorry to say, but he really won't be. You guys should at least have closure. (Sorry to sound sooo pessimistic!) :[ But yeah. Whatever happens, things will work out for the best. I know it sounds cliché, but it really does. You should respect his decision. Trust me, you really should. The last thing you want is a guy being in a long-distance relationship because you begged him to be in one, 'cause then there would a huge possibility that he'll be unfaithful to you. I know it hurts, but you should accept it...

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