[quote=ashely_pain15;#3515191;1270739957]hi. i have a problem here. my boyfriend ended our relationship coz he said he doesn't want a commitment when we go to college ( we'll go to diff. university,a 7hour-travel indeed) i told him we can work it out, trust is only needed. but he said he wants me to be free at mahirap daw kalaban ang distance. since every sembreak lng dw kami pwedeng magkita. he also said that, after 4 years, and we bump to each other we can still bring it back. i just want to win him back, it hurts to know that we broke up though we both know that we still love each other.[/quote] hey ashley, we're in a similar situation, graduating and going to universities that are far from each other. well, my boyfriend and i decided to pursue with our relationship and try to work it out. if it doesn't, then we'll break up. of course, it wouldn't be easy but studies is our main priority. we wanted each other to reach our dreams, achieve things for ourselves. i guess that's how you should think too. regardless of whether you remain committed or not, just think that you both will go on with college so that you can pursue your dreams. you'd do that for each other. when the right time comes, and you meet again, you know you'll deserve each other because you achieved something already and you've proven something too.