[quote]No worries. :] Ohhh, I understand now. Stupid adviser, he/she shouldn't have told his mom that. It's not her place. D: Anyway, you should talk to his mom then. Explain to her why your mom said that. She probably just said that because she's upset about your academics last school year and she blamed your bf because your adviser told her about you guys. Talk to your mom, too. Give her a good reason to trust you that it's not because of your bf that last school year's wasn't very good for you and stuff. Parents tend to blame their kid's boyfriend/girlfriend when they don't meet their academic expectations.[/quote] -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- It's not about my academics, actually, when we started to be together, I became the first honor of the class and I when the recognition exercises came, I am the second honor and I also received awards. I can really feel that my mom don't trust me. Last school year when the Valentine's Party of our school came, even though I already bought a ticket, she didn't allow me. My mom and and my father even fought about that and I heard her say, [b]"...makikipaglandian lang naman yan dun!"[/b]. I was really hurt when I heard that, I cried all night. sorry for using some tagalog words again. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- [quote]haay. bakit ganito ang buhay. noon lahat ng gusto ko kahit gano ka mahal bigay agad ngayon hindi na kse spoiled na daw ako masyado pero di ko nman kasalanan sila naman nag sanay sa akin na ganun.ngayon ko lang nalaman kung pano mag value ng mga gamit at family.pero bakit ganun hindi parin nila nakikita mga effort ko na nagbabago na ako kahit mahirap dahil sanay ako sa buhay na bgay lahat ng gusto ko.[/quote] -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I think you can't post tagalog here. sorry. Anyway, I think you should really talk with your parents about your problem and say that you're trying to change. Work to get what you want by doing chores or by helping them.