[quote=DeverKerbill;#3670936;1282922247]Guys i need some help too.. I just dont feel it anymore with my gf. in just 8 months, she has changed. or maybe it's her real self that she didnt show me on the early months.. she had a friend which is completely breakdown after she got dumped by his bf. and my gf told me that she might be like that too if i dumped her. so what should i do? should i still stick with her eventhough i'm already tired of this relationship? or should i break up with her, but it'll make her crushed?[/quote] I think I'll choose the second option because the image of yours will went bad if you keep on going into that and you're now simply tired with her... Don't try to waste her time being with you, I said WASTE because if the time comes that she will know the main reason (yeah, about being tired with her) she will certainly cry and ask to you why did you tell her in that certain time.. right? you should talk with her about that issue, because this is quite sensitive for the side of your girlfriend. It's better to leave her, because it would certainly make her feel good at the later part of your break up.. rather than, staying with her even though you're tired because if you'll say you're tired with that girl, FOR ME, it automatically trying to imply to us that you really don't love the girl that much.. NOT LIKE BEFORE, right? so why making the days more harder for her? try to be invincible into that kind of matter (: